Dear Terrie: Thanks for writing in.  I think you need to have a conversation with your spouse about this without a doubt.  When you do speak with him, please be calm and approach it the subject gently and do not be on the defensive.  Help him to understand how having private conversations with your children [...]

Dear KC: Heard about your blog and wanted to know if you could post this message for everyone to see and give me some advice.  My husband and I are in a very tense situation at home that will inevitably lead to divorce.  We were discussing when we should speak to our children about what [...]